Breaking Up With Self-Sabotage

Behavior is said to be self-sabotaging when it creates problems and interferes with our long-standing goals. When we give in and engage in negative thoughts and actions, we create problems in our relationships, at our place of work, and within ourselves.

Breaking Up with Self-Sabotage is to show you that it is possible to overcome self-sabotaging behaviors and give you the tools you need to get started in making a positive change in your life.

Breaking Up with Self-Sabotage helps you stop slipping back into unhealthy habits and replace the mental traps of negativity.

Why you should Attend

You tend to focus on what’s NOT working, as opposed to what is
You tend to fear the future, worry a lot about the “what ifs” and what might happen down the road
You feel like you have no value and find it challenging to recall accomplishments
You criticize yourself often and can’t accept compliments
You compare yourself to others consistently, then feel bad for not measuring up
You chase away relationships. If you are in a relationship, you quickly find flaws and faults in the other person
You feel like you have no purpose in life

Areas Covered in the Session

Do you have a talent for self-sabotage that you might not even be aware of?
Do you tend to focus on the negative?
Do you spend a lot of time worrying about the future, and what could go wrong?
Do you ever feel like all these thoughts might be holding you back from reaching your full potential?
Strategics to overcome self-sabotaging behaviors and give you the tools you need to get started with making a positive change in your life
Tools to help you stop slipping back into unhealthy habits and replace the mental traps of negativity

Who Will Benefit

All
Elected Officials
Entrepreneurs
CEOs
Company Presidents
Corporate Leaders
Mid-Level Managers
HR Managers/Directors
School Principals
School Superintendents
Professional Athletes
Parents
College Students

Speaker Profile

Jeff Willie Served in the United States Air Force in key leadership roles and Senior Combat Security Police Instructor from April 1977 until November 2002.

Leadership and Communication Professor for the University Phoenix, Dallas/Fort Worth campus from May 2003 until June 2023. Air Force Junior ROTC Instructor from November 2006 until December 2020 (School Year 2015/2016 AFJROTC Instructor of the Year) Former facilitator of Stephen Covey 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

CEO of Jeff Willie Leadership, Executive Program Leader with Maxwell Leadership, Executive Leadership Consultant, Life & Speech Coach, DISC Behavior Analysis Consultant/Trainer, Keynote /Motivational Speaker, Certified Virtual Presenter, Registered Corporate Training Executive, SHRM Recertification Provider.

Because of Jeff’s ‘WHY Leadership’, his passion is leading his clients to discover their WHY, find their voice, and maximize their strengths while offering advanced strategies to live a life of Success to Significance, “Inspire until they Expire”.

Jeff facilitates High Road Leadership seminars and leadership retreats for several school districts, cities, large companies throughout U.S. As an International Educational Consultant, Leadership Consultant, Speaker, and Trainer, Jeff facilitates educational and leadership symposiums in Tokyo Japan, Cameroon West Africa, has leadership coaching clients in Ghana, Cameroon, Tokyo, Philippines, Nigeria, Kenya, & Qatar, currently prepping for a November 2024 leadership retreat in Bali, Indonesia.

Jeff is a contributing writer for Good Life Family Magazine…his favorite articles are ‘How Poverty Produced a Platform’ and ‘Life and Death Are in Your Words’ based on his life, school and church. Because of Jeff’s work with Good Life Family Magazine, Jeff is the recipient of the magazine’s 2018 Very Inspiring Parent Award. He is a contributing writer for “The Re-Education of the African American Child” by Larry D. Davis. And his co-authored book is ‘In Her Boots, Sexual Assault Prevention and Recovery Strategies.

Jeff is a Conflict Mediator, an Arkansas Law Enforcement Instructor in Special Weapons and Tactics (SWAT), an Honorary Colonel Arkansas State Police, and a life-time member of Rotary International.

Jeff has three associate degrees, bachelor’s degree in Corporate Training and Development, master’s degree in organizational human resource development, graduate certificate in Conflict Management, and a doctoral student in Educational Leadership. Jeff’s mantra; “Inspire until he Expire, people are his business”.